October
| 1 | What is my vision for our life together? What are my feelings answering this? |
| 2 | What are my thaughts about us being unique as a couple? How do I feel about this? |
| 3 | How do I feel when you want to understand me better? |
| 4 | How do I feel when we show our love as a couple? |
| 5 | Where am I now with our relationship? Romanced? Dissillusioned? Joy? |
| 6 | In what areas do I feel challenged to be more open with you? How do my actions make me feel? |
| 7 | What are some of those "little things" good and bad? |
| 8 | When have I felt close to you lately sharing joys as well as concerns? |
| 9 | When have I nurtured lately? Have I been nurtured? How does that make me feel? |
| 10 | What important decision do I/We have to make in the near future? |
| 11 | What are some ways that we have sustained our 24-hour love affair recently? |
| 12 | What values and traditions do I value in my Family? My spouse's famiy? How can we integrate them into our family? |
| 13 | How has your openeness enabled me to grow? |
| 14 | What is Jesus calling us to as sacramment of his love? |
| 15 | Our opposites are God's plan challenging us to be more, not less. What opposites in our life are challenging me right now? |
| 16 | How do I feel about Engaged Encounter right now? |
| 17 | Have I felt really important lately? How do my actions make me feel? |
| 18 | What unselfish gift of love of yours has brought true joy to another this past week? |
| 19 | How did I do in our last argument? What rules did I follow? Break? Did I trust? |
| 20 | Describe how we as a couple have a more meaningful life than we each would have had alone. |
| 21 | When have you given me life in the past week? |
| 22 | What decision to belong to others have I made recently? Who and why? |
| 23 | Do I see myself being truly open to new life at this time? Apart from children in our relationship what does it mean to be open to life? |
| 24 | How have I been recently an effective sign to others of God's Love? |
| 25 | What do I personally have to offer my family? Church? My community? |
| 26 | Is a decision to love just a decision to put aside some disillusionment? |
| 27 | What method can I best use to create unity with you? With God? |
| 28 | How do I feel when I have to make a decision that should be made mutually? |
| 29 | What issues concerning our family do we have yet to resolve? |
| 30 | Describe a recent occation when your spouse has been lifegiving to you. How does that make me feel? |
| 31 | What have I done that needs forgiveness this month? |